Not who you want to be SOMEDAY.
Question 1 of 12
On a first date, I usually:
Focus on impressing them so they’ll like me.
Avoid sharing too much so I don’t scare them off.
Show up authentically and see if we actually connect.
Question 2 of 12
If someone isn’t showing much interest, I:
Walk away and invest in someone who reciprocates..
Double down with gifts, texts, and favors.
Keep chasing, hoping they’ll “come around.”
Question 3 of 12
When it comes to texting, I often:
Overanalyze every word.
Wait anxiously for replies and keep re-reading.
Text naturally and only when I actually want to.
Question 4 of 12
When dates don’t go anywhere, I think:
“It wasn’t a match, and that’s okay.”
“Nice guys always finish last.”
“It must be something wrong with me.”
Question 5 of 12
I often imagine relationships as:
Something that will finally “fix me” or give me value.
Proof that I’m not broken if someone chooses me.
A partnership where two whole people choose each other.
Question 6 of 12
When I'm attracted to someone, I:
Put them on a pedestal and become overly accommodating.
Find ways to spend a lot of time around them without letting them know I’m interested.
Communicate and establish clear boundaries and expectations from the beginning.
Question 7 of 12
My dating style is:
Direct and intentional about my interest.
Overly accommodating to keep their interest.
Playing the “safe friend” until they notice me.
Question 8 of 12
I feel rejected when:
They don’t notice everything I do for them.
They’re upfront and not interested (and I move on).
They date someone “less nice” than me.
Question 9 of 12
When I think about what I bring to a relationship, I:
“I’ll do whatever they want me to do.”
“I just hope being nice is enough.”
“I bring strength, integrity, and my full self.”
Question 10 of 12
My self-worth and how I feel about myself on a day to day basis is heavily dependent on:
Others' approval and validation, especially women, even if I don’t know them personally.
My personal achievements.
A strong sense of self and a supportive community that recognizes my worth.
Question 11 of 12
My biggest dating frustration is:
“If it’s not working, I’ll invest in someone aligned.”
“Why don’t they ever see how good I’d be for them?”
“Why do they always choose the bad guys?”
Question 12 of 12
When I think about dating, I believe:
Being nice is enough.
Avoiding conflict at all costs will keep them around.
Strength + authenticity + presence builds attraction.