If I could go back and tell my twenty-year-old self one piece of advice it would be:
Hire a coach.
As a professional athlete I had more coaches than I could count with zero apology and zero shame or guilt.
Yet as a man, the idea of hiring my first men’s coach was terrifying to me.
Why? My stupid ego still told me I could figure things out all by myself. I was deep in the lone wolf paradigm. What a waste.
If you are like I was, how often have you let six months slip by without making real progress on reaching a goal?
An entire year? Two years? Five years?
How frustrating is it to pick your head up after months of “good intentions” and realize you’re no further towards your goal than you were before.
How devastating is it to realize you’ve actually slid backwards from bringing that goal to life.
How awful is it to continually lie to yourself that next week will somehow be different. That shucks, the stars will align and magically your challenges will just disappear.
Trust me, I get it. There’s a reason I fought in a cage in my thirties — to release all the angst I had from spinning my wheels so much in my twenties.
You don’t have to do what I and so many men before you have done:
You don’t have to feel like you’re wasting your wildly precious time and energy and your life is slipping by with no purpose.
You don’t have to feel like shit because you’re all on your own to make things happen for your life.
You don’t have to lose relationships because you’re out of touch with your emotions and trying desperately to be The Nice Guy.
You don’t have to get divorced, lose half your 401k, and become a single dad all because no one ever taught you the basics of communication.
You don’t have to resort to numbing yourself with booze, weed, and porn day in/day out because you’re angry or depressed at where you find yourself right now.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO DO ANY OF THAT.
But you do have to take a step forward and accept some guidance and support — from another man.
I know it’s scary to admit you don’t have it all figured out when that’s the societal expectation of you as a man. Get over that shit, doing so is a game changer.
I get it, it takes courage to reach out — I’ve done it myself. It takes the warrior spirit in you coming alive and saying:
Fuck this, I’ve finally had enough and I’m calling in an expert. I’m more interested in my results than I am my bullshit story.
I’M MORE INTERESTED IN CREATING AN AWESOME LIFE THAN I AM LUGGING AROUND THE SAME TIRED OLD STORY I HAVE FOR AGES.
It’s time to start advocating for you.
And letting someone who’s been where you are be there for you.
It’s time to step into becoming the man you know you can be but society hasn’t taught you to be.
It’s time to take a deep breath, be brutally honest about the fact that if you could have done it on your own you would have done it already.
Take another deep breath and fill out the form below.
We will review your application, schedule a 10 minute introductory call with you to get a feel for where you’re at, then have one of our official Man UNcivilized Coaches reach out to you to talk about working together.
Zero obligation. Zero hard sell.
Welcome to the best decision of your life.