The Program
Two years from now, you won’t recognize yourself.
That’s either a threat or a promise. Depends on what you do next.
After more than a decade of working with men, here is what I know to be true.
It takes roughly two years before you’re living as a completely different man.
Yes, there will be progress along the way, but the men who stay on the UNcivilized track for two plus years, are never the same again.
They walk with a silent confidence. Their bodies are healthy and strong. Their bank accounts are full. Their bedrooms are wild and expansive. And they’ve living from a depth and with a level of presence they never thought possible.
If you’re still reading, you’ve probably already had a weekend retreat high, done a 30-day challenge, and have enough mental frameworks to make you dizzy.
What you don’t have is a program that challenges you and keeps you engaged long enough for something to permanently change.
Not change like you feel better for a week. Change like the man you were is no longer available any longer. He’s gone. And the man you want to become is now embodied. He’s in your blood and in your bones, not swimming around in your head as you try to think your way into being powerful.
That’s what the two years of The Program do for you. We’ve had hundreds of men in our programs for that length of time and while it may seem long now, it truly is the sweet spot.
Words from our Members:
My level of consistency and accountability has increased dramatically. My purpose and vision has been fine-tuned with an action plan that I can follow. I know that I have a committed group of men to stand with me. I feel so much more solid in my grounded presence as a man. The nice guy tendencies that I had continue to fall to the wayside..for me, not taking care of myself first and people-pleasing are becoming a thing of the past.
I see a big difference in my professional life as well as my personal life, and having that constant awareness helps me navigate what’s best and allows me to lead my life better. And by leading my own life better, I can show up even more for my family and friends.
—Tony D., NC
The Problem
The problem isn’t information.
Let’s be honest, more books aren’t going to help. By now you understand the concepts — the wounded little boy, the unexpressed shadow, the conditioning that’s been running your life since you were twelve years old trying to figure out how to not get rejected or abandoned.
You know the language. Hell, you might even teach it to other people.
And still, something isn’t shifting the way it should.
Here’s what you need to know:
Knowing something and living it are two completely different skill sets.
The gap between them isn’t about ingesting more content. It’s filled with time, repetition, accountability, and a structure that’s designed to meet you where you are and move you forward.
That’s why we built The Program.
What It Is
This is the exact curriculum to go from Civilized to UNcivilized.
The Program is a structured, sequenced, two-year track built for the man who’s done fucking around with incremental improvement and is ready for the kind of change that doesn’t wash off at the first sing of trouble.
Yes, you immediately become a member of The UNcivilized Nation, so you’re never alone and have badass men in your corner from the start.
You’ll also take four immersive courses, released in sequence. Each one building on the last, the way all real things get built — slowly, deliberately — so they stick.
By the time you graduate, you won’t be the same man who signed up. That’s not a sales line. That’s the whole damn point.
Who this is not for
It’s not for the man who wants to dip in and out of his work when life gets busy. It’s not for the man who’s looking for the next thing to try after spending a few weeks with us.
Hell, it’s not for our seasoned vets and our leadership team. Most of them already deeply embody this work and can or are teaching it themselves.
What’s included
Everything you need. Nothing you don’t.
The
Program
Value: $5997$1997
One-time investment
2-year program
You get the full container from start to finish — civilized to UNcivilized.
- Full UNcivilized Nation membership Monthly live calls, the community, the library — all of it, for the full two years.
- All four immersive courses Released in sequence over 24 months. Each one builds on what came before. Plus, never-before-released exclusive course content from Traver, found only inside The Program.
- Bi-annual check-in calls Twice a year, we look at where you are, what’s shifted, and what's next.
- UNcivilized hat and Nation t-shirt
- Graduation Two years is worth marking. We’re going to mark it.
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With Payment Plan
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I believe in this work enough to put my money where my mouth is. Show up for your first two weeks — get into the first course, do the opening assignments, meet your brothers. If you’ve done that and know in your gut this isn’t your path, email us within 14 days and I’ll refund every dollar. No questions asked, no hard feelings. All I ask is that you actually show up before you decide. |
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The Curriculum
Four courses. Two years. One direction.
Each course is designed to take you deeper on your path than the one before it.
1
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Man
UNcivilized
Where it starts. Someone told you how to be a man and you believed them. This course strips the conditioning down to the studs and teaches you how to be an UNcivilized Man. Raw. Real. Relational. Flowing seamlessly back and forth from the primal masculine to the divine masculine. The framework is simple. The work is not. You will end this course knowing the difference between who you were built to perform and who you actually are. Most men have never felt that distinction and it changes everything.
Testimonials
Becoming the leader in my family changed everything. Last week my daughter told me she was proud of me and it punched me right in the tear ducts! Thank you brother.
—Bernard S.
The work all came together when I realized that I had empowered myself to take control of my life, not be a pushover in my relationship with my spouse, and to take some huge, uncharted leaps with my business. I could already see a change in my relationship with my spouse. She hasn't changed her behavior, but I have changed the way I react to her words and actions, and I've learned to say "No" when I don't want to do something. I take time for myself by working out consistently and have quit drinking.. Without this help, I would still be spinning my wheels and hoping/wishing things would change.
—D.M., CO
2
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Kill
The
Nice
Guy
Every man has a bit of Nice Guy in him. Myself included. And we know, the most dangerous man in any room isn't the one who rages. It’s the one who smiles while he disappears. He’s agreeable. He’s accommodating. He’s liked by everyone and known by no one, including himself. This course finds him, names him, and ends him. The Nice Guy isn’t who you actually are — he’s who you became to survive. It’s time to stop surviving and start showing up.
Testimonials
I was going to see a psychiatrist twice a month, and all it seems I was doing was getting some affirmation with little practical help from my therapist. I’ve gotten more out of this course than I did in months of therapy. This is self-work for men…that works.
—Reggy Hebert
Before taking the Kill The Nice Guy course I was about to be divorced. Everything I thought I was doing to be nice was actually a covert contract that was pushing the loved ones away in my life. Now I have healthy ways to communicate my needs and the funny part is I am actually giving the people in my life what they really need and getting my needs met at the same time.
—Chad Vazquez
3
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Do
Hard
Shit
The body knows what the mind avoids. This is the course that earns the right to everything else — built around the principle that you cannot think your way into a new life. You have to live your way there. We use hard physical, emotional, and relational challenges not as punishment, but as proof. Proof that you can do more than you've been doing. Once you have that proof, it doesn’t leave you.
Testimonials
I love the balance between concrete steps to overcome blocks, and the emotional support to identify the thought patterns and how they got there in the first place. This program was truly a supporting and validating kick in the ass.
—A.M.
I was completely standing in my own way and unaware of my blindspots. Your chapter on overcoming your Inner Critic changed everything for me.
—B.R.
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The
Meditation
Course
A distracted man is easy to pull off course. By his emotions, his impulses, his fears, and the constant noise of the world around him
This course teaches you how to step out of that noise and develop one of the rarest qualities a man can have today — presence.
Not the kind you fake. The kind people can feel the moment you walk into a room.
Testimonial
Meditation was the secret superpower I never knew I needed. Before this course, I spent a lifetime pushing through everything, when what I actually needed was to finally learn to slow down enough to let life happen. I went from constantly reacting to everything to finally giving myself the space to respond, and it changed my relationship to everything and everyone around me.
—J.B., NC
Let's fuck shit up.
Two years. One investment.
Less than the cost of a weekend retreat. With returns that last considerably longer.
The
Program
Value: $5997$1997
One-time investment
2-year program
You get the full container from start to finish — civilized to UNcivilized.
- Full UNcivilized Nation membership Monthly live calls, the community, the library — all of it, for the full two years.
- All four immersive courses Released in sequence over 24 months. Each one builds on what came before. Plus, never-before-released exclusive course content from Traver, found only inside The Program.
- Bi-annual check-in calls Twice a year, we look at where you are, what’s shifted, and what's next.
- Graduation Two years is worth marking. We’re going to mark it.
Join Now
With Payment Plan
|
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I believe in this work enough to put my money where my mouth is. Show up for your first two weeks — get into the first course, do the opening assignments, meet your brothers. If you’ve done that and know in your gut this isn’t your path, email us within 14 days and I’ll refund every dollar. No questions asked, no hard feelings. All I ask is that you actually show up before you decide. |
FAQ’s:
How much time should I expect to commit each week?
Most men spend between one to three hours per week on curriculum inside The Program, and keeping up with what’s happening inside The UNcivilized Nation. That includes working through the course material, completing practices, and staying engaged inside The Nation. Some weeks may require more reflection or effort, but the work is designed to fit into your life, not take it over.
Is The Program self-paced?
New courses and phases are released at specific points throughout the 24-month journey, giving you a clear path to follow without dropping everything on you all at once. Each dedicated phase of The Program lasts for three months to give you enough time to work through the content and start actually applying it to your everyday life. You can move through the available module materials at your own pace while staying connected to the larger progression of The Program.
What happens if life gets busy or I fall behind?
You don’t lose access to material because you missed a week or needed to slow down. You can return to the work and continue from where you left off. The goal is not to race through the curriculum in each phase. The goal is to apply it to your life and keep moving forward. If things get really busy for you, we’ve also got your back to help support you along the way with your included accountability calls.
Is membership in The UNcivilized Nation included?
Yes. Membership inside The UNcivilized Ntion is included throughout the entire two years of The Program. The Program is the path, The Nation is the community where you will find the support you need in your journey. You’ll have unlimited access to the community, calls, conversations, resources, and support available to Nation members without paying an additional $47 per month.
What happens after I complete The Program?
After graduation, you can continue to participate inside The Nation through our monthly or annual membership options. You may also have the opportunity to apply for more advanced programs and experiences with Traver.
Do I have to complete everything perfectly?
No. This isn’t school, and you aren’t being graded. You’ll get more from The Program when you stay engaged, complete the work, and remain truly honest about where you are. Consistency matters more than perfection.
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