Be relentless in these three areas and watch your life go from civilized black-and-white to high-def explosive Technicolor

Be relentless in these three areas and watch your life go from civilized black-and-white to high-def explosive Technicolor:

#1
Relentless pursuit
of bringing your
unique vision to life.

YOUR unique vision.
Not your parents’, not society’s, not mine.
Yours.

Whatever that may be to you. But it had better be intentional.

In other words,
sit your ass down
with a pen and paper
and start figuring out
what reality
you want to be
waking up into.

If that’s not your current reality, get relentless. It’s not going to build itself. Nor would you want it to. No one’s coming to save your ass, so get to work.

#2
Relentless pursuit
of your personal growth
and service.

Your rent on this earth is twofold: grow, and be of service to others. Never before has more information been available at your fingertips. You can sit in on a molecular biology lecture at Harvard from your cellphone—today.

What lights
you up?
If you don’t know,
figure it out.

Then get curious, get playful, and get involved. Show some initiative in your own growth and pursue paths of excellence and mastery.

And don’t you dare let this knowledge die with you. Serve. Help people who can’t help themselves or don’t know what you know. We’re all in this together and now is the time for men to start looking at the outside world and asking, “How may I serve?” rather than, “What can I take?”

#3
Relentless pursuit
of your relationships.

Men die of isolation more often than we die in war.
Think about that.
And fuck that.

Let’s end that right now. Pick up the phone. Make a bro date for coffee or lunch.

And then
ask yourself,
“How can I
add value to this
relationship?”

Can you do that by only keeping it light and sharing the weather and football statistics? I don’t think so. We do that by sharing what we’re really going through. By using the fucking “V” word and saying things like, “Actually I’m struggling a bit.” Be the man who brings other men together. Be the man who reaches out. Be the man who asks his partner, “How can I best support you right now?” Be the man who’s willing to honestly answer that same question when it’s asked of him.

The Three Relentless Pursuits are arrows in every UNcivilized man’s quiver. They’re the backbone of the richest life he’s ever known. They can be yours as well.

Embrace them.
Put in the work they require.
Celebrate them. Live them.

Yours UNcivilized,
Traver

P.S.
If you’re stuck, lost,
or circling the same
challenge over and over—
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to break through. 

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