
Books by Traver Boehm
- 28 Days In Darkness : for those ready to find wisdom in their shadows
- Man UNcivilized : for men ready to reclaim authentic masculinity (and for the women who love them)
- Today I Rise : for anyone in the crushing depths of heartbreak or divorce
28 Days In Darkness:
How To Embrace Darkness, Break Free From Suffering, Find Hope, and Reclaim Your Life.
This book is for you if:
- You’re tired of toxic positivity and spiritual bypassing—ready to embrace your whole self, including the dark parts
- Life has fallen apart and you need a roadmap for navigating crisis and finding meaning in devastation
- You crave authentic transformation that goes beyond surface-level self-help
What you’ll get:
A profound journey through Traver’s 28-day voluntary isolation in complete darkness, with practical tools for embracing your own shadows. Learn how to find the gems hidden in your deepest wounds without having to sacrifice a month of your life as he did. Includes free access to a companion workbook and course.
This book is raw, honest, and surprisingly practical. Like having a wise friend who’s been through hell and back guide you through your own darkness with both vulnerability and hard-won wisdom.
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Man UNcivilized:
Your Guidebook on Everything You Didn’t Know You Needed To Know About Men.
This book is for you if:
- You’re a man feeling trapped between outdated masculine stereotypes and modern confusion about what it means to be a man
- You’re tired of being told you’re broken and want a new paradigm that honors both your primal nature and consciousness
- You’re a woman who wants to understand what healthy, grounded masculinity looks like
What you’ll get:
A blueprint for healthy masculinity that blends primal strength with deep consciousness. Raw guidance on building the life YOU want as a man, not what society demands, while becoming safer for everyone around you.
This book is unapologetically direct—providing real talk about pain, purpose, and what it means to be a whole man in today’s world.
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Today I Rise:
How To Overcome The Gut-Wrenching Pain Of Your Breakup Or Divorce & Reclaim Your Life.
This book is for you if:
- You’re drowning in the gut-wrenching pain of a breakup or divorce
- You want to not just survive this hell, but transform it into fuel for rebuilding your entire life
- You’re ready for raw, no-bullshit guidance from someone who’s been exactly where you are
What you’ll get:
A 90-day roadmap from heartbroken to thriving, written as daily letters during the author’s own brutal divorce journey. Like having a friend who’s survived their own relationship apocalypse send you exactly what you need to hear each day.
No false promises that the pain will disappear—instead, a proven path to use that pain as rocket fuel for the biggest transformation of your life.
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About Traver
Traver Boehm’s goal is to end the suffering in men — in order to end the suffering caused by men. He is dedicated to understanding how men think, what’s behind their behavior, and most importantly — their unique challenges in the modern landscape.
In 2016 after losing a pregnancy, his marriage, and his business partnership all within weeks of each other, he created a radical year-long social experiment to answer the question, “Who am I as a man?” During that year, he lived alone in a pitch black room for a month, sat among men nearing the end of their lives in hospice, and called all of his exes to ask where he was deficient as a man. It is also when he realized that he might be able to help other men answer the question for themselves, “Who am I as a man?”
Traver is the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement, the fastest growing men’s movement in the world. He is the author of “Today I Rise”, “Man UNcivilized” and “28 Days In Darkness” as well as a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach and podcaster.
Drawing upon an eclectic background ranging from professional bodyguard and Mixed Martial Arts to a Master’s Degree in Traditional Chinese Medicine and meditation, he’s helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path. He does this through one-on-one coaching with men or women, couples coaching, and group mentorship.
For more information:
- Please visit his website: manuncivilized.com
- And find him on Instagram: @traverboehm
- And all podcast platforms: The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm