UNcivilized is an international men’s movement dedicated to shifting the landscape of masculinity by supporting men on their unique journey to full expression. We’re men who’ve looked at the civilized world’s epidemics of unexpressed pain, addiction, and loneliness and said, “No thank you!”

We want you and all men to be as strong physically, emotionally, and spiritually. To do this we know you need to be surrounded by like-minded men who are doing the same. As a company, our mission is to end the unnecessary suffering in men as well as the suffering caused by men. Our mission is a big one.

UNcivilized is for men at all stages of their journey. From you young men coming of age and into your masculinity, to our community of Elders sharing the wisdom of your lives with us and the world. All are welcome here.

We additionally have events and offerings for you women interested in and currently living an UNcivilized lifestyle.

While our work here at UNcivilized has a very strong therapeutic foundation, thanks to our Chief Elder and Men’s Initiation Facilitator, Duey Freeman LPC, we are not a therapeutic organization.

We’re here to help you move forward in your life with our mentoring and coaching, community and accountability. With all of our clients, we strive to be responsible, trauma-informed, leaders but leave the heavy lifting of healing of trauma to licensed professionals. The good news is that when you come to our retreats you get the opportunity to work directly with many of the world's most sought-after men’s therapists.

If you haven’t read or listened to Man UNcivilized – start HERE.

We also offer numerous online and in-person programs throughout the year and around the world. Whether you are looking for the best podcast in the world to jam to, 1-1 men’s coaching, an online community, joining an in-person men’s group, start an in-person men’s group, take a self-led online course, or join us for a profoundly life-changing retreat experience, we’ve got you covered.

If you’re still unsure of the best place for you to start working with us, shoot us an email at [email protected] and our team is happy to help guide you in the right direction.

One word, we’re RELATIONALLY-focused.

We’re not afraid to say it, and we’ve got the proof to back it up, we’re the best to ever do it. We’ve been helping men from around the world kick ass in their daily lives, heal from their past, quit drinking, quit watching endless hours of porn, Kill The Nice Guy inside of them, and find real quality brotherhood since 2017. And doing all of that again with an overarching emphasis on RELATIONSHIP.

We’re not going to yell at you like you’re pretending to be a Navy SEAL, nor do you need a tab of acid to understand what we’re talking about. We take a grounded, holistic, and humanistic approach to all of our work.

Both.

We offer live and in-person men’s groups, workshops, and retreats. We also offer live online, and self-led courses, 1-1 and group virtual coaching, online masterclasses, live podcast recordings with special guest speakers, and of course there’s our international online men’s community, The UNcivilized Nation.

If your goal is to become a better man, you will make the time. Around here we all wake up early, stay up late, listen to calls or replays on our drives into and home from work. We all get the same 24 hours in a day, it’s up to you what you do with them.

What we’ve found after working with thousands of men is that there will come a day when the pain of not doing this work will be greater than the pain of beginning. Unfortunately, that’s often a catastrophic day for that man because he’s lost something important to him, but it doesn’t have to be. A year from now you’ll wish you started today. This we know.

Not at all. We don’t care who you pray to or who you don’t. We want good men who are interested in bettering themselves, being there for their families and communities, and supporting their brothers.

Absolutely. Just like our religious views, we don’t care who you love. We have a number of gay men in The UNcivilized Nation who are crushing their goals and supporting the hell out of their loved ones. They’ll be the first to tell you – the least interesting thing about them is their sexual orientation – and we agree.

UNcivilized men come in all shapes, sizes, and ways of expressing themselves. We want good men and we have them.

We’re well aware that a big way to change the future of masculinity is to help young men start living out healthy and UNcivilized masculinity right from the start. It’s ALWAYS easier to teach a new practitioner in any discipline than it is to try to correct old habits, so we’ve got programs designed specifically with young men in mind! Our Director of Coaching Mike Danson would love to chat with you 1-1 about how we can help you as a young man, or with parents/guardians interested in helping their son grow up with an open heart and a ferocity for life.

Not a thing. Just like the gym, there’s no need to get in shape before showing up for your first workout. That’s our job. And as past gym owners we also know – waiting to do this inevitably means, you’ll never join.

Come to us as you are whether you’re on rock bottom or need someone to listen to you share how overwhelmed you are at how amazing your life is. We’re here for you all and all of you is welcome.

Imagine waking up at 40 and hearing about fitness for the first time and figuring out that you now have the ability to change your body and therefore everything you do with it. The feeling that there’s now a path in front of you that will change every relationship in your life, especially the one with the man in the mirror – is the exact feeling you’ll get when you encounter men’s work for the first time.

That’s the most common response we get when men first learn about men’s work. That and, “I wish I’d known about this in my twenties, it would have saved me from a divorce or three...”

Men’s work is a set of practices to get you into your body and connected to your heart where you can truly experience your power, your potency, and your purpose. All while keeping you connected to your empathy, compassion, and kindness.