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The UNcivilized Podcast

With Traver Boehm

Where you get to meet and learn from the most fascinating humans on earth.

#409 - Darkness Series Pt 6
#409 - Entering the Dark — Episode 6: The Dark Retreat Preparation Guide Jun 30, 2025
  Most people think this is about mental toughness. It's not. This episode covers what I packed, what I wish I hadn't, what saved me, and what almost broke me. But more importantly — it’s about h...
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#408 - Darkness Series Pt 5
#408 - Entering the Dark — Episode 5: What I Learned About Masculinity in Total Darkness Jun 23, 2025
  There's a lot of talk about masculinity out there. Most of it's noise. In the dark, I discovered a version of masculinity that had nothing to prove, nothing to fight, and nothing to perform. Ju...
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#407 - Darkness Series - Pt 4
#407 - Entering the Dark — Episode 4: Darkness as Medicine -- Healing in Places You Avoid Jun 16, 2025
  Pain doesn't leave the body until it's been felt. In this episode, I talk about how darkness forced me to feel the stuff I spent years running from--grief, heartbreak, shame. All of it. No ther...
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#406 - Entering the Dark — Episode 3: Fear, Boredom, and Madness -- The Three Voices You'll Meet in Silence Jun 09, 2025
  Ever sat still long enough to hear yourself think? What about long enough to hear yourself scream? This episode is about the three characters that show up when the world goes quiet--fear, bored...
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Darkness Series Pt 2
#405 - Entering the Dark — Episode 2: What Happens When You Remove Every Distraction? Jun 02, 2025
  We live in a world built on distraction--dopamine loops, constant noise, nonstop input. But what happens when you take it all away? In this one, I share what it felt like to remove every single...
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#404 - Darkness Series Pt. 1
#404 - Entering the Dark — Episode 1: Why the Hell Would Anyone Sit in the Dark for 49 Days? May 26, 2025
  If you've ever wanted to run away from your life for a bit--or just hide in a closet with no phone--you're going to get this one. In this episode, I dive into why I chose to sit in total darkne...
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#403 - Self-Betrayal
Why you’re willing to betray yourself to fit in and how to stop — with Traver Boehm May 19, 2025
  In this episode I talk about why so many of us find ourselves in a constant cycle of self betrayal all in the name of fitting in and being loved. OY! We all do it to some degree, but once you s...
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Taylor Johnson
From Porn to Non Ejaculatory Orgasms with Taylor Johnson - #402 May 12, 2025
  If you’re a man who has sex, or know one who does, this episode is for you. Taylor Johnson used to be addicted to porn. Heavily. And like so many men, it destroyed his sex life. It led to erect...
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5 Things You Need to Know in a Breakup or Divorce
Five things you need to know in a breakup or divorce — with Traver Boehm May 05, 2025
  In this episode I’ll talk about five of the most important factors for you to consider if you’re in a breakup or divorce. My writing career kicked off with a book about how to use the pain of y...
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Deep Psychology of BDSM & Kink
The deep psychology of BDSM & Kink with Dr. Douglas Thomas Apr 28, 2025
  In this episode I speak with renowned author Dr. Douglas Thomas on what makes people tick in the bedroom and beyond it. After reading Dr. Thomas’s book, The Deep Psychology of BDSM & Kink while...
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The Price You Pay for Being UNcommon
The Price You Pay for Being UNcommon — with Traver Boehm Apr 21, 2025
  In this episode I’ll talk about how and why you need to get past the idea that people who don’t live like you do or even want to, are supposed to understand you.  If there’s one thing that needs...
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Andrew from Infinite Devotion
The truth about a 24 hour Dom/sub relationship with Andrew from Infinite Devotion Apr 14, 2025
  If you’re curious how to build more trust, devotion, and polarity in your relationship, this episode is for you. Ever wonder what really happens in a relationship dynamic where both parties have...
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The UNcivilized Podcast

The UNcivilized Podcast

With each episode you’re guaranteed to laugh till your stomach hurts, cry tears of both joy and anguish, and be highly entertained through a mix of interviews and solo recordings, all with the goal of helping you live a truly UNcivilized life in your bedroom, your business, and out there crushing shit in the world.

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