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The UNcivilized Podcast

With Traver Boehm

Where you get to meet and learn from the most fascinating humans on earth.

#415 - Living An UNtamed Life by Following Your Truth w/ Kati Bird
#415 - Living An UNtamed Life by Following Your Truth w/ Kati Bird Aug 11, 2025
  Kati Bird is the very first person to teach me about Shibari, the Japanese bondage system.  She now travels the world leading workshops, working with couples and individuals and has zero apolog...
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#409 - Darkness Series Pt 6
#409 - Entering the Dark — Episode 6: The Dark Retreat Preparation Guide Jun 30, 2025
  Most people think this is about mental toughness. It's not. This episode covers what I packed, what I wish I hadn't, what saved me, and what almost broke me. But more importantly — it’s about h...
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#408 - Darkness Series Pt 5
#408 - Entering the Dark — Episode 5: What I Learned About Masculinity in Total Darkness Jun 23, 2025
  There's a lot of talk about masculinity out there. Most of it's noise. In the dark, I discovered a version of masculinity that had nothing to prove, nothing to fight, and nothing to perform. Ju...
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#407 - Darkness Series - Pt 4
#407 - Entering the Dark — Episode 4: Darkness as Medicine -- Healing in Places You Avoid Jun 16, 2025
  Pain doesn't leave the body until it's been felt. In this episode, I talk about how darkness forced me to feel the stuff I spent years running from--grief, heartbreak, shame. All of it. No ther...
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#403 - Self-Betrayal
Why you’re willing to betray yourself to fit in and how to stop — with Traver Boehm May 19, 2025
  In this episode I talk about why so many of us find ourselves in a constant cycle of self betrayal all in the name of fitting in and being loved. OY! We all do it to some degree, but once you s...
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5 Things You Need to Know in a Breakup or Divorce
Five things you need to know in a breakup or divorce — with Traver Boehm May 05, 2025
  In this episode I’ll talk about five of the most important factors for you to consider if you’re in a breakup or divorce. My writing career kicked off with a book about how to use the pain of y...
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Deep Psychology of BDSM & Kink
The deep psychology of BDSM & Kink with Dr. Douglas Thomas Apr 28, 2025
  In this episode I speak with renowned author Dr. Douglas Thomas on what makes people tick in the bedroom and beyond it. After reading Dr. Thomas’s book, The Deep Psychology of BDSM & Kink while...
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The Price You Pay for Being UNcommon
The Price You Pay for Being UNcommon — with Traver Boehm Apr 21, 2025
  In this episode I’ll talk about how and why you need to get past the idea that people who don’t live like you do or even want to, are supposed to understand you.  If there’s one thing that needs...
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Andrew from Infinite Devotion
The truth about a 24 hour Dom/sub relationship with Andrew from Infinite Devotion Apr 14, 2025
  If you’re curious how to build more trust, devotion, and polarity in your relationship, this episode is for you. Ever wonder what really happens in a relationship dynamic where both parties have...
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Stuck? You're Not Afraid of Failure or Success
Stuck? You’re not afraid of failure or success — w/ Traver Boehm Apr 07, 2025
  Every time I have a client say they're stuck because they’re afraid of either failure or success I roll my eyes and say — OH LORD. No you’re not. You’re afraid of the unknown. The deep unknown. ...
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Evan Meyer - Living from Soul
Living from Soul with Evan Meyer Mar 31, 2025
  Now more than ever, people are craving a deeper experience of their lives. I bet you can relate.   In this episode I speak with Boulder Outdoor Survival School graduate, Men’s Work Facilitator, ...
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Jiujitsu, Breathwork, and following your own path — with Pat Divilly. Mar 17, 2025
   Today I bring you another Irishman and a fascinating one at that. Pat is a good friend of the UNcivilized world and has been leading a life worthy of the title of UNcivilized since before we we...
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The UNcivilized Podcast

With each episode you’re guaranteed to laugh till your stomach hurts, cry tears of both joy and anguish, and be highly entertained through a mix of interviews and solo recordings, all with the goal of helping you live a truly UNcivilized life in your bedroom, your business, and out there crushing shit in the world.

You’ll find two distinct recording formats both of which are awesome:

The UNcivilized Podcast is a private recorded conversation with a fucking rockstar. 

UNcivilized UNplugged is a LIVE podcast recorded on Zoom with you in the audience able to ask questions of our amazing guest. Sign up now to participate in our next show! 👇


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