How to Stand Out in Today’s Swipe & Ghosting Culture
It’s not about your height, job, or looks.
It’s about how you show up.
Learn the 3 shifts that change everything to go from DMs to genuine connection in this live training.
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Why You’re Struggling to Connect
Let’s be honest. You’ve got the apps. You’ve got the profile. You’ve even had a few good conversations.
But here’s what keeps happening:
- You send a thoughtful message… and get a one-word reply.
- You finally connect… and she disappears before you ever meet in person.
- You spend time together… but it fizzles. Never leading to the next step you’re craving.
And you can’t figure out what’s going wrong.
Here’s the truth most “connection advice” won’t tell you:
It’s not about your height, your job, income, or your clothes.
There are plenty of men who don’t “look the part” but still build meaningful relationships.
The actual difference is how they’re showing up.
The 3 Mistakes Sabotaging Your Connection
(And What to Do Instead)
Right now, you’re probably making at least one of these mistakes when you’re pursuing someone:
Interview
Mode
You’re carrying 90% of the conversation, filling the silence with stories and small talk… because if you stopped, you feel like the whole thing would fall flat.
Chameleon
Syndrome
You mirror her every interest so you don’t “blow it.” You say you love hiking, sushi, and country music—even though your perfect Saturday is Netflix and takeout.
Blank Slate
Energy
You show up with nothing to share. No stories. No passions. No spark that makes her curious about you.
Here’s the good news:
None of these are permanent flaws. They’re habits. And habits can change.
Learn The Skills That Separate You From Every Other Guy Online
- The 3 most important shifts to stop getting ghosted, ignored, or put in the “just friends” box.
- How to turn app chats into real-world connection that actually leads somewhere.
- How to lead without being controlling — and build attraction without pretending to be someone else.
- The mindset shift that makes you magnetic in today’s connection culture — even if you feel out of practice.
Who This Is For
This workshop is for you if:
- You keep getting ghosted before meeting in person.
- You’re tired of being “nice” and invisible.
- You want to lead in connection without being fake or manipulative.
- You’re ready to have conversations that build chemistry, and chemistry that builds into something more.
Who This Is Not For
This workshop isn’t for every man.
If you’re looking for:
- Tactical tricks to “get more notches” → Wrong room, brother.
- Blaming women for your loneliness → Not the answer.
- Red-pill rage & YouTube rant culture → You’ll hate this.
- Shortcut scripts or fake personas → You’ll leave disappointed.
This is for men ready to build real confidence, lead with presence, and create connections rooted in truth, not performance.
Meet Your Host:
Traver Boehm
For over a decade, I’ve coached men to reclaim confidence, lead with strength, and create relationships that actually work.
I’ve worked with ex-Special Forces soldiers, CEOs, and single dads starting over — and I’ve seen the same patterns keeping them stuck.
In this training, I’ll show you how to break those patterns and start showing up as a man that women truly want to spend more time with.
Why This Event Is Different
Most of my work with men happens in person. Three-day retreats. Immersive weekends. Live workshops.
Because real transformation happens in the room.
But not every man can hop on a plane. Not every man can take three days off work or cover travel costs.
That’s why I’m bringing this workshop to you — live, online, interactive.
How This Works
For the first hour, I’ll walk you through the exact shifts that make you stand out in today’s swipe-happy culture — without games or gimmicks.
Then, we open the floor. We’ll dig into your specific situations, your roadblocks, your “what do I say when…” moments — and you’ll leave with answers you can act on that night.
Same depth. Same challenge. Same breakthroughs you’d get in a live room — without the flights, hotels, or time away.
Event Details
🗓 Date: Wednesday, September 10th
🕒 Time: 12 PM Mountain (2 PM Eastern)
💻 Where: Live Virtual Workshop
Your Ticket
This is interactive, live coaching where you’ll get clarity, strategy, and the confidence to show up in a way that feels good to you, and magnetic to her.
Seats are capped so I can get to every man’s questions.
You can keep swiping, second-guessing, and staying invisible. Or… you can grab your seat and finally learn how to create the kind of connection you’ve been craving.
👇 The move is yours.
My live workshops usually run $197 to attend in person. This time, you don’t need the travel, the hotels, or the time off work — you can step into the same training for only $19.