IN 2024,
MEN WILL EITHERRISE AS LEADERSOR BE LEFT BEHIND.
THE TIME TO SIT DOWN, SHUT UP, AND STAND BY IS OVER.
Men, hear me:
For far too long we have assumed the roles of oppressors, villains and perpetrators.
For far too long we have ignored the call to step up, deal with our pain, and own our rightful place as protectors, providers, and stewards of our Earth.
Two years ago I was calling for a revolution. That revolution is underway right here, right now, across the globe — and YOUR REVOLUTION starts today — with YOU.
It’s time for you to own your primal nature while developing your deepest consciousness.
It’s time for you to find your balls and claim your heart.
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THE CIVILIZED MAN IS CAUGHT BETWEEN THE LIES OF THE PAST AND THE TRUTH IN HIS BELLY.
He knows the ways of his father and grandfather lead to disease, divorce, and an early death.
He knows the ways of the modern collective only serve to strip away his true power, admonish him for his leadership, and shame his desires.
My brother, everyday I speak to men just like you. Men who are hurting.
Men who feel trapped with nowhere to go. Men who are crushed under the weight of not being able to protect what they love and who they love. Men who feel lost and without purpose — displaced and misplaced. Men who are stuck in ruts they just can’t get out of on their own. Men who are sick of being told they’re broken. Men who are sick of feeling broken. Men who feel isolated and alone.
Know this:
Your pain is valid. You are not broken. You are certainly not alone.
The Civilized Paradigm is the caustic lie you had no choice to swallow. The same lie rotting your stomach as you read this.
HERE’S WHAT NO ONE IS TELLING YOU ABOUT THE CIVILIZED WORLD’S BROKEN MASCULINE PARADIGMS:
- Men lead every single negative health statistic that doesn’t involve ovaries or breasts.
- 77% of suicides committed in the US are by men.
- 8 out of 10 male suicides are related to a breakup or divorce.
- 80% of divorces are female-led. God only knows what percentage of marriages are sexless and miserable.
- 75% of the chronically homeless are male.
Addiction. Depression. Obesity. Suicide and death rates skyrocketing… I can go on and on… but I don’t need to, do I?
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MAN UNCIVILIZED IMMEDIATELY PROVIDES YOU:
- THE paradigm of masculinity the world has been begging for—the one demanding grounded strength be cultivated, integrity become central, and men create a relationship with their beautiful hearts.
- An ETHOS for men to live by daily—guaranteeing you a healthy place in this world.
- An understanding of sex—as a vehicle for growth, healing, and development for both you and your partners.
- Building the life YOU want to live, not the one a warped society demands of men without giving you a say in the matter.
- Peace. Freedom. And community. The real answers to the suicide, addiction, and destructive patterns so many of us men are caught in. The patterns the people in our lives suffer from along with them.
Men — none of us think we’ll be a statistic. Yet the statistics don’t lie. If you follow the CIVILIZED path, you’re bound to end up where CIVILIZED men do:
- Sick
- Alone
- Addicted
- Or dead.
Now more than ever,
MY MISSION IS TO CHANGE THE WAY ONE MILLION MEN EXPRESS THEIR MASCULINITY.
That’s a damn big goal, but I’m all in. And brother, every single day I talk to men just like you who started with a curiosity about a weird book with a gorilla on the cover. Men who now are living lives they never thought possible just a few months ago.
Man UNcivilized isn’t a magic bullet, but if you’re ready to change your life as a man, this is how. 2024 can be the year it all changed for you. I promise.
Testimonials
Here’s what men have to say about the Man UNcivilized Book
Your book will likely save my relationship, before it even turns into marriage.
It’s certainly playing a huge role in saving my life right now.
This book is pure medicine; it serves as antidote to the toxic masculinity And the fear of being unapologetic about owning your manhood. I was gifted this book and have since gifted it two times myself to important people in hopes it brings the same bold empowerment and growth.
My only recommendation with this book is to take your time with it, and share your journey with someone important to you. I definitely recommend this book if you’re tired of seeking approval or acceptance, if your done feeling shame about your journey, and if your done watching from the sidelines and are ready to own your life.
A brother of mine gave me a copy of your book and I can say without a doubt that it has made more sense to me than anything I have ever read. Your book perfectly described what I have been trying to be my entire life but I could never put into words or I would push it to the back of my mind. There aren’t words to say how grateful I am to you for your book. It’s fucking healing and genuinely has put me in a much better place mentally and continues to do so. Thank you brother.
I finished your book last night. Probably one of my fastest times in finishing a book beginning to end. I wanted to thank you for setting the record straight and being a catalyst for positive change for men, and the world in general. The book couldn’t have found me at a better time. As a 27-year-old figuring out my own shit with my business, my relationship with my girlfriend and my own family, your book gave me a different perspective and approach on how to handle certain things. I’m eager to embark on this new journey with myself. Thank you.
This book is for men and women alike, but not for the faint of heart or those accustomed to blame-shifting their problems and finger-pointing at the world for their woes. On second thought - maybe these folks need it most. This book is savage poetry, unapologetic, confronting and compassionate in one sweeping breath.
I found myself laughing out loud on one page, fist-pumping the air on the second, blushing by the bold proclamations Traver calls out on the third ("Whoa...he just said that?! He just said that!!!") and then crying messy man tears the page after. Traver has given eloquent voice to so many sentiments I've shared, held a mirror to the aspects of myself that I'd kept hidden, and given me permission to be messy AF while striving to become a better human.
This book will help you become 100% responsible for your life and for the brighter, kinder, UNcivilized future we all aspire to co-create.
“Man UNcivilized is a daring, groundbreaking and provocative book written for men by a man.
Traver Boehm dives into his life experience and experience with thousands of men to create this thought-provoking manuscript that disturbs the status quo of how men live in and experience the world.
Regardless of whether you agree or disagree with what Traver presents, you will find yourself changed in reading this book.”
–Duey Freeman, MA LPC
Founder of the Gestalt Institute of the Rockies
Thank you for such a phenomenal book. It’s so tough finding great wisdom for men in a 2020 world. I found your book vital in retaining masculinity and identity while being cognizant and respectful to the LGBTQ+ community. As a litmus test, I asked myself after every chapter, “if my female-to-male trans friend sat next to me while listening to this audiobook, would he agree or at least discuss this with me?” And you help up beginning to end. As someone who tends to be an ‘ally’, this was a perfect anchor for supporting them while retaining who I am as a man.
Listening to your book on audible for the third time through today and it’s been a game changer for me - thank you.
The first time shattered a lot of my beliefs and now I’m trying repeat exposure to really cement it into my brain. The book and the meditation course have really changed my mindset in a positive way.
Traver, you have been a godsend. Love your work and your words. Thank you. Big Hugs, Fist Bumps and High Fives. Peace Brother.
I love being outdoors and hiking and building shit and shooting guns and sex but never identified with the hyper masculine attitude/persona that’s often portrayed and also had my struggles with my mental health invalidated by the “man up” culture I experienced growing up where I had to repress my anxiety and depression only for it to fester.
But then you come along and talk about real shit, like mental health and even racial equality. Which are important to me and part of my core morals. So thank YOU Traver for reuniting me with masculinity and helping restore some of my faith in my fellow men.
“This is the kind of book that could change the world if we let it. I hope we let it.
Blending the spiritual with the primal, Traver Boehm offers a new paradigm for masculinity moving forward. This book is essential reading for any man who wants to create a safer, better world.
Many men lack the resources, mentorship, and ideas to help them navigate their hearts, truth, and deepest desires. This book is a lighthouse for men who are treading water and lost at sea.”
–Dr. Jeremy Goldberg
Long Distance Love Bombs
Testimonials
Here’s what men have to say about the Man UNcivilized Book
A brother of mine gave me a copy of your book and I can say without a doubt that it has made more sense to me than anything I have ever read. Your book perfectly described what I have been trying to be my entire life but I could never put into words or I would push it to the back of my mind. There aren’t words to say how grateful I am to you for your book. It’s fucking healing and genuinely has put me in a much better place mentally and continues to do so. Thank you brother.
I finished your book last night. Probably one of my fastest times in finishing a book beginning to end. I wanted to thank you for setting the record straight and being a catalyst for positive change for men, and the world in general. The book couldn’t have found me at a better time. As a 27-year-old figuring out my own shit with my business, my relationship with my girlfriend and my own family, your book gave me a different perspective and approach on how to handle certain things. I’m eager to embark on this new journey with myself. Thank you.
Thank you for such a phenomenal book. It’s so tough finding great wisdom for men in a 2020 world. I found your book vital in retaining masculinity and identity while being cognizant and respectful to the LGBTQ+ community. As a litmus test, I asked myself after every chapter, “if my female-to-male trans friend sat next to me while listening to this audiobook, would he agree or at least discuss this with me?” And you help up beginning to end. As someone who tends to be an ‘ally’, this was a perfect anchor for supporting them while retaining who I am as a man.
Your book will likely save my relationship, before it even turns into marriage.
It’s certainly playing a huge role in saving my life right now.
This book is pure medicine; it serves as antidote to the toxic masculinity And the fear of being unapologetic about owning your manhood. I was gifted this book and have since gifted it two times myself to important people in hopes it brings the same bold empowerment and growth.
My only recommendation with this book is to take your time with it, and share your journey with someone important to you. I definitely recommend this book if you’re tired of seeking approval or acceptance, if your done feeling shame about your journey, and if your done watching from the sidelines and are ready to own your life.
I love being outdoors and hiking and building shit and shooting guns and sex but never identified with the hyper masculine attitude/persona that’s often portrayed and also had my struggles with my mental health invalidated by the “man up” culture I experienced growing up where I had to repress my anxiety and depression only for it to fester.
But then you come along and talk about real shit, like mental health and even racial equality. Which are important to me and part of my core morals. So thank YOU Traver for reuniting me with masculinity and helping restore some of my faith in my fellow men.
This book is for men and women alike, but not for the faint of heart or those accustomed to blame-shifting their problems and finger-pointing at the world for their woes. On second thought - maybe these folks need it most. This book is savage poetry, unapologetic, confronting and compassionate in one sweeping breath.
I found myself laughing out loud on one page, fist-pumping the air on the second, blushing by the bold proclamations Traver calls out on the third ("Whoa...he just said that?! He just said that!!!") and then crying messy man tears the page after. Traver has given eloquent voice to so many sentiments I've shared, held a mirror to the aspects of myself that I'd kept hidden, and given me permission to be messy AF while striving to become a better human.
This book will help you become 100% responsible for your life and for the brighter, kinder, UNcivilized future we all aspire to co-create.
Listening to your book on audible for the third time through today and it’s been a game changer for me - thank you. The first time shattered a lot of my beliefs and now I’m trying repeat exposure to really cement it into my brain. The book and the meditation course have really changed my mindset in a positive way.
Traver, you have been a godsend. Love your work and your words. Thank you. Big Hugs, Fist Bumps and High Fives. Peace Brother.
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Described as a “hand grenade, artfully-wrapped”
Man UNcivilized: The UNapologetic guide to BECOMING and FINDING a WILD and CONSCIOUS, LEGEND of a MAN.
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