The UNcivilized Podcast

| Jan 30, 2023

Lisa Chatham — Sex Crimes. Consent. And Hard Conversations.

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In America, it is more common to talk about disgusting things around children than to teach them about sex.

Raising children without sexual education may result in teen pregnancy, sexual diseases, or sexually frustrated adults who may or may not be a danger to society.

To dive into this topic, Lisa Chatham joined us in this episode. She is a psychotherapist passionate about helping men convicted of sex crimes return to being functional men within society.

Today we will talk about sex crimes, consent, taboo, and how to improve your sex life as a couple through conversations.

Do you think that a person convicted of sexual crimes can change? Let's hear what she has to tell us.

ABOUT LISA CHATHAM

Lisa Chatham, M.A., is a faculty member in the Psychology and Yoga Studies Department at Naropa University, and a psychotherapist in private practice in Boulder, Colorado. For over ten years she has worked with young adults, adults, couples, and groups on a wide range of issues including anxiety and depression, sexuality and identity, failure to launch, intimacy and autonomy in relationships, and psycho-spiritual well being. She specializes in family systems, attachment and forensic psychology.

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Website: www.lisachathampsychotherapy.com/

WHAT YOU WILL HEAR

[2:05] Who's Lisa?

[5:00] What's a sex crime?

[10:00] Why is sex still viewed as taboo in America?

[19:22] The influence of porn in America.

[22:12] Relationship attachments.

[29:37] Why are people addicted to porn?

[31:54] How to tell your partner that you are addicted to porn?

[34:39] Secretly consuming porn leads to eating criminal sexual activity?

[40:05] Hard conversations about sex in relationships.

[50:00] What is consent, and why is it so important?

[55:56] Lisa's piece of advice.

[57:30] Where to find Lisa?

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